The Skoda Kylaq nicely meets your priorities. Unlike others in the segment, the Skoda Kylaq comes equipped with a torque converter gearbox, which is the smoothest type to have. You will appreciate this, given that most of your driving is in city traffic.
As for safety, the car is well equipped and has secured a 5-star BNCAP rating too. While Skoda has not been known for its reliability, the Kylaq has so far been performing well.
And as for easy to drive, the Kylaq will not disappoint you as it feels light enough for the city, and the dimensions are nice and compact.

